Morgan and Andrea are here to share the good, the bad, the really bad and the “are you kidding me?” things you need to know if you’re getting divorced (or considering it). What started as a passion project has grown into a top 3 podcast in the divorce category. Learn from Morgan’s experience as a family law attorney and Andrea’s mistakes as a divorced mom. You can feel the love and the levity as they walk you through the process all while making you laugh your loubs off. You got this and they’ve got you.

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Episode 137: Can I Pause or Stop my Divorce Process?!

It’s a complex decision, whether to pause your divorce process and explore the possibility of reconciliation. We discuss why some couples might reconsider divorce, the emotional and practical aspects to consider before making a decision, and the importance of having real, lasting change before hitting pause.

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Episode 136: How Do I Know if it's Time to Get Divorced?

In this episode of How Not To Suck At Divorce, Andrea and Morgan talk about the tough question of whether to stay or go in your marriage. They walk you through the simple but powerful TALK acronym to help you gain clarity and confidence as you make this big decision in your life. They cover how therapy can help you unpack what's going on, the importance of understanding your emotional needs, how to assess the fun and love in your relationship, and why knowledge is key to moving forward.

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Episode 134: When Your Kids Don't Want to Go To the Coparent's House (Divorce Tips)

We are talking about what so many divorced parents struggle with—kids who resist going to the other parent’s house. We talk about why this happens and offer actionable tips for managing these tough transitions. It’s completely normal for kids to feel conflicted, and in this episode, we break it down and share ways to make those transitions smoother.

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Episode 130: How to Mentally Prepare for Your Divorce

Today we welcome Hilary Rosenberg back to the show to dive into the topic of mental preparation for divorce. I know, I know - but hear is out. The emotional complexities that come with ending a marriage are so hard, terrible, overwhelming and more. Let us take a load off and share our insights and practical strategies to help you navigate your divorce with clarity and strength!

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Episode 129: A New Tool to Help You with Parenting Schedules

Whether you’re just beginning the divorce process or in the thick of it, figuring out the best arrangement for your children while managing your own emotions can feel overwhelming. We’re here to help you break it down, with guidance from family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Parra. Rebecca brings a wealth of experience in creating custody plans and offers practical tools to help you make the best decisions for your family.

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Episode 128: Is Your Divorce Driving You to Drink Too Much?

How exactly how drinking impacts your emotional state, decision-making, and overall well-being during one of life’s most challenging times?

This episode IS NOT about giving up drinking completely; it’s about understanding when alcohol is helping or hurting as you navigate the divorce process.

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Episode 127: The C Word: Custody (The Unavoidable Part of Divorce)

And now, we’re tackling one of the toughest realities of divorce: custody. Custody arrangements can feel unnatural, overwhelming, and emotional. Deciding when and how much time you spend with your children after a divorce is never easy, but it’s an unavoidable part of the process. In this episode, we break down how to handle custody agreements, how to mentally prepare for time away from your kids, and what you need to know to navigate this difficult terrain.

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Episode 126: Is Your Spouse Stringing You Along? (Not Divorcing, but not "Happily Married")

Let’s talk about the difficult topic of feeling strung along in a marriage. Whether your spouse is coming and going as they please or avoiding making a decision about your future together, it can leave you feeling powerless. The hosts discuss how midlife changes like perimenopause and stress only make these dynamics more challenging, but the real focus is on how to take back your power by setting boundaries.

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Episode 124: Can You Even Afford to Get Divorced?!

Let’s be honest, talking finances is about as fun as doing taxes, but it’s one of the biggest reasons people hit pause on their divorce plans. Fear of the unknown can be paralyzing, but don’t worry, we’ve got you covered!

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Episode 121: Do NOT Fall for These Common Divorce Misconceptions!

We're baaaack! And today we're talking about common divorce myths and you know how we do- we're providing practical advice for navigating high-conflict separations. The episode addresses misconceptions about co-parenting, alimony, legal advantages for moms, and the impact of infidelity.

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